Most of my WoW characters only belong to my own personal guild. Occasionally I will join a guild if someone asks me. But for the most part I don't really belong to guilds or do stuff in groups. And after the problems my husband has had with his current guild and the previous one, its no wonder I don't join guilds.
Guild #1. My husband was recruited as a healer (shaman) to a guild. He is in it for maybe a month when they ask him to do dps for a few fights before he goes back to doing healz. He's fine with this as the guild leader is bringing in his own pally, and apparently these particular fights are done better with a pally than a shammy. Then the guild leader decides that he wants to play his pally permanently and tells M that he has to do dps from now on. Basically, even though he was recruited as a healer, when the guild leader decides he wants to heal instead, M is kicked to dps without a choice in the matter. M tries to explain that while he doesn't mind doing dps for a few fights, healing is what he does. Its what he's geared and specced for. Its why he created this char. No dice. So he gquits.
Guild #2. Seems to be pretty nice. Definitely has a better raid schedule. Doing good until the other day. M gets some gems cut, pays the person, all is great as far as he knows. Then he gets a mail from the guild leader. Says that when he got the gems cut, he was given one extra, says this looks bad for the guilds reputation. To me, this sounds like a mistake on the JC's part. But instead of whispering M, this person whispered the guild leader instead, and is making it seem like M's fault that this person handed out and extra gem and M didn't notice. Wants gem returned or compensated. So, M (against my advice) submits a ticket to Blizz because he doesn't know the Jc's name, and the guild leader did not tell him and it not currently online. I have no idea if things are taken care of or not. Today, M gets a mail from the guild leader, saying that he has temporarily kicked M from the guild until things are straightened out. Says he has already compensated the JC, but wants M to send an apology to that person, and send him (the GL) a copy of the apology note as well. So M sends an "apology" note (you know, the kind of apology note that says, I apologize that you made a mistake). Not sure yet what the outcome is going to be, or if M even wants to rejoin the guild.
So much drama. And M wonders why I don't want to transfer my char to his server and switch to Horde to raid with him. No way I'm gonna spend that kind of money just to bounce from guild to guild because people are egotistical assholes.